Most of us humans are people pleasers and worry too much about what other people think of us. One of the main reasons for this is that we are a tribal species. In the earliest days of our species, our tribe (especially the alpha, or leader) had to like and accept us so we could maintain our place in the tribe, which meant food, safety, and survival. If someone, especially the alpha, didn’t like us …
Am I An Impostor? Have you ever started a new job and felt like you were an impostor who was bound to be “found out” eventually? Have you ever felt like your position in life was too good to be true, and it was all going to fall away eventually because surely you don’t deserve “this much” credit, support, or appreciation? Well, my friend, you could be experiencing what is known as Impostor Syndrome. But …
How are you doing in achieving your goals for 2022? If the energy behind your New Year’s resolutions and annual goals is falling (as it typically does this time of year), don’t beat yourself up or quit altogether. We all lose motivation from time to time, even the highest achievers among us! Instead, watch this video with 5 tips on how to remotivate yourself and achieve your goals. ✅ Don’t beat yourself up – it’s …
Confidence is a critical trait for a leader. Without it, your team will not follow you or contribute at their highest potential. Without confidence, adversity of any magnitude can derail your team’s progress. Confidence cannot be faked. You either have it or you don’t. None of us is born confident or starts out confident in our skills or leadership abilities. Instead, confidence is something each and every one of us creates. So how do you …
My whole life people have described me as strong. In my early career, with an aspiration for success, I emulated the strength of those in top business positions who were mostly male. The masculine style of leadership that dominated our culture until this century was more about using managerial power over others to get them to do what they wanted (“Do it because I’m the boss and I say so.”), rather than connecting to a …